All posts tagged Relationship

Control Your Jealousy

by dangal on December 11, 2011 in My Blog with 4 Comments

Don’t get jealous! But no matter how you try not to get jealous you will be; when you see the things you want and have are on the other hands.

Love and Material things are common why people get jealous. It is normal to get jealous but dangerous when you cannot control it. Jealous is an energy; it can bring you down and power you up.

We get jealous by love because you think someone can take it away and we get jealous by materials things because we want the things that other have but you don’t.

How to get over your jealous?

Breath the air, I know the feelings of getting nervous and the mixture of bad emotions, just breath the air to survive this. The next step will make you feel better. You have to know why you are being jealous and break it down to understanding. Keep on breathing. Jealousy is really hard to understand while anger and hate will pop up anytime when you can’t understand why. Relax and continue breathing.

You have to visualized good thing to happen but don’t lie to yourself, if it is bad, it is really bad. Be thankful that you can prepare and plan to avoid it.

Good communication can help. Be honest and tell what you feel. Listen and understand on the feedback. Sorry if you get jealous by mistake or intentions, humbly understand and forgive them anyway if you want to get over it.

Trust is the best antidote for jealous but don’t put your trust on that person or materials, instead put your trust on God that what ever may happen you can smile at the end of the day. That person you trust can fail you and those things may never be yours. What you can always have is hope that God will never fail you. Trust God to get over your jealous. You may find your self more loving when you trust God.

When you manage to control you jealous, then it becomes positive energy. It creates harmony in between. You become strong not to lose hope and feel better at the end of the day.

Offer free baby- sitting

by dlysen on September 20, 2011 in Make A Difference with No comments
Make A Difference

Have you tried to take care of your friend child or baby? Do you think it’s normal to offer baby sitting? It is normal but it is very rare or it comes once in a blue moon. We’re too busy yet we can make a difference by giving our extra time and effort for our friends. We can make difference to the person you ask to take care or help them to take care of their young.

Working at home together with children will divide our time attending both of your job and responsibility. You have to leave what you are doing to attend the need of your children. As a friend it would be nice to visit your friends’ house for help. You can attend to baby-sit on watching TV while you let your friend finished some work.

When your friend can’t bring their children on their work or appointment, offer your time to take care of them. It will be really nice to help and develop good relationship. Building relationship really make difference.

Love survives when you know the best for relationship

by dlysen on July 10, 2011 in My Blog with No comments

If you are going to love someone you must like it first.

It is hard to make love when you don’t like it. The love becomes artificial and may never last longer. Sometimes we don’t see the difference between loves and likes. Like is focus on the things we want and love is acceptance. This is such a very simple formula for longer and lasting relationship.

Breakup

This happens when the relationship pause or end. What can you feel about this? Have you experienced it already? We want to reconcile, fix or save the relationship as early as possible. In the end understanding why we need breakup is important. When you understand everything it will be easy for you to move on or get back.

Move on and get over.

I’ve been in the situation of saving relationship. Don’t let your like become greater than love or you will bad hurting yourself. The things you like are sometimes will never be yours and it hurts when you know that you can never have it. Love is something that you can accept and understand why; love can save you from bad feelings and emotions to get over.

Love save us from hurts

My breakup with my first girlfriend and to move on is a very hard decision. I like her very much that I wanted her to become my wife and I love her to make her happy. I only find myself chasing her because I like her as I want and later I realize to show how much I love here when I accept to let her go and be happy apart from me. Love hurts when you don’t know how to give and accept.

 

Ask yourself. Why letting go of someone hurts? You might only like her, it turns you out to become selfish, bring more frustration and pain. This happens when you think only for yourself and never understand why you have to let go. Be careful that your emotion may shift to hate anger and grudge when you don’t get what you want.

 

It is very easy to let go of someone you really love. There is always a reason for every let go. You can understand and accept it when you know the person you love will be more good and happier. It will surely hurt but you can recover fast because you know it is the best for both of you.

Secrets Behind Relationship Marketing Success

by dlysen on April 9, 2009 in Top Tips with No comments

“Highly Controversial Relationship Marketing
Secrets That Allow You To Persuade More People To Buy Your Products And
Services”

It’s easy to get people to do
exactly what you want them to do as long as you follow a few simple rules.

Something Interesting I’ve Found

When you give people
a few simple things they want up front, many of them find it hard not to give
you what you want even if it goes against their own best judgment. I know it
seems hard to believe but people will often do what you ask even if they don’t
think they should. I’ve put that to the test many times and the results are
shocking.

Instead of giving you too many specific do this and then do that techniques, I’m
giving you the mindset behind the techniques so you’ll completely understand how
to apply these methods to your business as soon as you finish reading the
report.

In this report you’ll discover…

  • The one thing you
    must do up front to immediately separate yourself from the competition and get
    people to see you as someone worth listening to. If you’re not doing this,
    you’re losing money every single day of the week. Period.

  • The big secret to
    getting people to believe what you say so that they will do whatever it is
    you’re asking them to do even if they know they probably shouldn’t. This
    secret shows you how to get people to almost mindlessly hand you control of
    their decisions.

  • How to instantly
    connect with your readers so the thought of doing business with your
    competitors in the future becomes a complete joke. Many of your competitors
    act like mindless commission hungry robots so use that to your advantage.

  • Three rules you
    must follow if you ever hope to have any chance to put yourself in class of
    your own where you never have to worry about what your competitors are doing.
    It’s all about you and your business and this is how you make sure other
    people (with money to spend) feel the exact same way.

  • How to immediately
    change the way people think about and react to you. This allows you to catch
    them off guard (in a good way) and make them more receptive to what you’re
    asking them to do. Many times, the difference between who people thought you
    were and who you appear to be is enough to get them to follow your
    suggestions.

    A lot of what I talk about in this report are the concepts behind why certain
    things work. If I gave you nothing but specifics with no real understanding of
    why they work, you’d have a hard time duplicating them in your own business.

  • Concepts are the
    ideas that go into creating specific techniques. When you understand the
    concept behind a specific technique or strategy, you can basically create an
    endless variety of specific techniques and strategies on your own.
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