Consider the possibility that if is sound too good to be true, It might not be.

This is false expectations, when you think that it’s so easy or good the outcome probably the worst. It happens to me and this is my story.

Having a job seems easy to have when you have not yet try to apply. I thought that completing the requirements and know all the things you do about the job you applied for is what you need. But it’s not what you expect; you can fail anytime you miss some of it. I failed the requirements.

Another “Sounds Too Good To Be True Story” in my life is when I join MLM Company that promise a compensation to live a lifestyle that you want. Well again its Good and True but it not again for me. That company doesn’t exist anymore and before I make a good income it shut down and declared a bankruptcy.

When I’m in High School? It’s just too good to be true that I marched on the graduation day even though I have a tendency not to graduate.

It is us who will claim that If Is too good to be true, It must be.

My moods to attract money are being happy to what I want to have. I love the trick in the book that says “to be grateful when your mood is high and graceful when it low.”

Have you observed your moods? Do you use it properly? When you are in a positive emotions, love, happy, sharing, passionate etc. you’re in a good mood. The energy you have at the moment is so powerful that everybody can feel what it is in you. Try to close a sale or try to start your work and you can deliver well. But when you where in a bad mood, having a feeling and emotions of being sad, frustrated, worried, hate, etc. you can feel yourself lock and it’s hard to move on.

To share my experience how I use my moods perfectly is when I work. Honestly it’s hard to work in a bad mood. It’s disturbed your mind and freezes you up, and don’t know what to do. While you’re in good mood you can easily figure out what next and you can work very well and efficiently. All possibilities will come up to your mind and you can have abundant of resources.

I’m about to share my bad habit during High School days especially during exams. Honestly I cheated on the exam, but what will you do if you got caught? The easiest thing to do is to accept that you cheated. I’m just being honest that I cheat and wait for the punishment. It is what I’ve done.

Another problem that makes me so hard to move is when I broke up with your sweetheart. It is hard to move when you’re attached to someone. I am blind to see the whole picture because I was inside of it and later figure out when I get out. I can see the image more when you’re away and understand what it really means. I have to move on.

Like when you lost a small thing a toy or gadget in your house. You spend your time searching the whole day  and you will find it on the other day when you’re not really looking for it.

When it comes to money… We may not have enough money at the moment. We wonder where to get it and often get frustrated when everybody turns us down. Don’t let yourself turn you down too. It’s the tragic mistake that you can make because it will paralyze us to think, to plan and act. Be happy that you don’t have money today no money can take away from you but today is the day you can make money. If you have nothing, you’re going to have. When you have it, share more often and all what left is a blessing.

This is the attitude that will save your future from being not enough. Give rewards to yourself first when you get your salary go and put some in your bank or savings. If you have enough savings to live for a year without a job is a nice result of paying yourself first.

When helping people you can give everything but don’t forget to recognized or reward yourself. It is not sometime the money you can have but you also can have a blessing from God. If there nothing left with you because you give to help God will be the one will provide for your future.
The bad habit of spending everything for you but categories for expenses is not paying yourself first. It will only solve your problem at the moment. Your future will depend on how you manage your money well.

You can make a difference, every working man can save $5 on a pay day but honestly only few will do. You can always find in the end that people who save money or pay themselves first will always be happy and less the financial problem.

Looking back to what happen to you can push you more forward. It is like famous quotes “sharpening the saw” I read in the book “The seven habits of highly effective people” by Stephen F. Covey. You find the benefits of knowing how you get here and understanding your strength and weakness.

Find yourself on things you can do well and things that you need to learn much more. When you reflect yourself, observe and find the answer of why you get there. When you have analysis on your reflection you can do more best on the next time around.

The reflection in my life that I always wanted to go back is the day I learn how to smile. There is inevitable mood of feeling bad and the way how I manage to smile and understand that process is the best reflection I always observe. The day I lost my first phone model is “Asus v8” I bought from my first credit card. It is lost it and its not yet fully paid. Imagine what you can feel if it was your first. Sure you feel bad, but how I make myself learn to smile is a different point of my life. I know that I become careless on riding a public transport MRT.  And when something is taken out to you something will replace or fills in back. Nothing will be lost now if you have none but a things to have.

You my lost your friends for a reason but you know someone can understand you better. Find a reflection where you can see yourself happy in the end. We make reflection to brighten up the way.

You can also find some reflection to others; you can adopt or relate some situation from your friends, or others. We can take more visual experience and imaginary solutions as we observes and learn from their experience.