Archive for 2010

Experiment With The One-Hour Solution

Decision in life is very critical and you have to be ready anytime it occurs. It happens more often in choosing priorities. A decision making is not sometimes a skill but sometime an instinct and some use faith to decide what he choose to believe.

“Don’t Worry Make Money” suggest that we have to eliminate fear and worry because it is the single most self-defeating emotion in life that will make your decision blur.

In my experience I can’t get an hour solution or instant solution if doubt fear is in mind. I have to get more time to understand the problem. If I doubt on a certain thing, I will miss the opportunity to know more about it. I must open up my mind and understand. When you understand more of a thing you can probably find the answer right away. Just focus on the things you want and you get faith, learn how and you will understand more. When know about that certain thing doubt and fear will disappear.

This is just an example. When you want to buy something that last on the stock and it is the only one left. Thought that tomorrow will be a good day to buy it but someone buys it the moment I return it to it’s place. You know that it will happen but our hope can’t predict what happen next. If we buy it when we can there will be no regret in the end.

Become Aware Of The Passion Factor

Richard Carlson agree with the book “Do What You Love, the Money Will Follow” a best-best seller from the author Marsha Senetar’s. — When we are passionate about what we do, success will follow.

This chapter explains about passion and how you benefits from it. I understand more how to use passion to benefits me. Let me share my experience doing things with passions. We play the game we like to play. In my case I love to play basketball when I was on High School. I never get tired until the end of game it’s because I love it.

When it come to success passion is important. Your passion will be your fuel to work-out and you might even forget to take a rest just because you love what you are doing.

If you are not passionate enough on what you are doing, your energy will not be enough to finish what you started. Applying passion on the things you do or want must be wise. The career path that is not within your passion will just lead you to frustration. But when you do things that you love to do everything will just be alright while you can give all the best for it.

Get Gorgeous Hair Now – useful tips from Shuji Kida

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Top 3 things you need to know before getting a haircut.
Study your bone structure. For example, Asian usually has round faces with soft features and this should be complemented with soft lines. A haircut that gives harsh line on the face only works on Caucasian features. The same goes for color: choose soft browns like chestnut and put in highlights to brighten up your face.
Don’t go to the salon empty-handed and explain to the hairdresser the cut or style you want – he’ll just get it all wrong. Bring a photo so he’ll get a better “picture“ of what you want.
The biggest problem with girls is that we care too much about what other people say. We base our haircut on what others might think about or hair (our friends or boyfriends for example). Shuji says you have to know what style you want and work toward your ideal haircut, regardless of other people’s opinions.

Be aware of what you don’t know and what you’re not good at.

Filling up your weakness is a great help to make your goal done easily especially if your weakness will requires working with it. You must first find your weakness in order to prepare a supplemental aid for it. One good example is solving mathematical equations, if you having hard with numbers use your calculator. That is a very simple way that others may fail to do so. They push themselves so hard and making their work much longer.

My personal experience doing things that I’m not good at is ordering a menu on a restaurant. So I always ask who’s with me to pick food to eat. Same thing on my business, when don’t know much about the product a have, I ask somebody who can explain more about it.

When you are good at something share it. It is your opportunity to leverage yourself to many. If 9hours of work can be done by you, when you delegate it by 3 people, you can finish the work in 3hours.

Surround yourself with experts

Just like the popular quote “The birds with same feather are the same birds.” At the back of my mind while reading this topic I know that if you are very successful at one thing you will love to share it because it’s one way people acknowledge it. Then it comes to my mind that the title of the chapter gives a big clue for your success.

Tracing back may experienced when I was involved in a rock band, I started with no idea about making your music rock and how it feels like to be on the stage. Not long enough I learn the way how to make the music rock on the stage. Changes happen all the time when I decide to become a sales agent. Same things happen, I have no idea from the start but time leads me to be good on it. Now I’m a blogger but and beginning to learn it from bloggers out there until such time will come you will know my success story. I have a different sets of friend like a musician where I learn to play rock music, like a business man where I learn make sales and a blogger from where I am learning how to blog right now.

It’s ok to get advice and most important to learn from the people who is already successful in doing things that you want to learn.

Re-blog me anytime

If you need some friends out there reblog me
I may not promise to give but I ask the world give you.

If you need your feelings out, reblog me.
I may not get their attention to like or reply but at least we express it.

If you think you’re alone, reblog me.
I may not make them with you but at least I did.

If you think you’re blessed, reblog me
I may not give enough fun but at least we give it all.

If you reblog me but no one answers?
Maybe you’re not in tumblr world.

Remind yourself that your life begins now

Many of us are thinking that our life’s merely to end. In the moment of bad situation most of us think hopeless. What we do not understand is this is just a beginning of another chapter of our life and our past is already accomplished. What you have now is just a brand new hope.

In this chapter of the book, it shows how people use the past or their experience in the wrong way. The past only teach us and we interpret it good or bad. We might say the past is cruel thing that we can’t move on anymore or we can say that past make me realized the tomorrow is better than yesterday. Learn your mistake anyway. Some say that past just ruin everything and what left to me is nothing. But for me we’re just truly nothing if we accept our defeat. If you still have an energy to breath, think, and love its enough for you to start again.

Our past has no power other than the power we give it. Drop all negative references to your past to and you notice that living now is much easier. As your past habits creep into your consciousness, simply acknowledge them and let them go. Your past was important because it was needed to get you into the present. Focus on what you can do today, right now, in this moment, and you will begin to create the abundance.

Work On Knowing Instead of Believing

This topic will guide you to choose to decide which way is much better. What is better of knowing than believing? It said that believing is something that you just feel, but it is uncertain and often you don’t understand. Believing is something implanted in the mind while we’re young but we never really know it from the first place. Knowing is said to be within your understanding and making yourself sure about what is certain.

Food

smoked haddock with tomatoes and chive dressing

My personal example of believing is like a pay day. I expect to have money on that day but it is inconsistent on my experience. Sometime it delays. We move now of knowing that pay day will sometime never come on time and knowing it makes you prepare on a budget.

At first we believe and after we experience we learn to know about it. We believe that a nice looking and mouth watering food in the table is good but you never know unless you taste it. And once we knew it, we learn from the second time around to taste or not to taste it again.

It is a gift when you to know something in instant. But it requires lot of experiences of knowing something you want for. Just like planning to become rich or have a nice income. We can start from believing but knowing things what to do will be easier to achieve our goals.

We believe that we can earn big income on doing business but only few try to know about it. And the people who try can able to learn and know more about the business they are doing.

If you believe on something and you know it will going to happen, act for it. It’s an opportunity to have this kind of wisdom to do a certain thing that will eventually happen when you act.